The art of balancing Motherhood, Job and Hobbies

It is very difficult to balance motherhood, a full time job and artistic hobbies. There are thousands of women out there who are trying hard to do it successfully. Meet Avni Patel, a busy mom of a three year old boy and the artist behind Always10..not to forget she also has a full time job. How does she do it..Here's her story in her own words:


The Background:

"I have been drawing since childhood. My earliest memories of drawing were with my grandmother and my father. I remember my father teaching me a little technique on how to draw a palm tree, shading, using watercolors, and my grandmother would teach me how to draw a peacock, huts and other things. I stopped drawing when I moved to America and have recently rediscovered this part of my life".

The inspiration:

The rich cultural heritage of India is widely reflected in Avni's creations. The dances, the folk-lores and the beautiful ornamentation reflect momentum and happiness.

"My inspiration comes from India, the sounds, the pulse, the people, I love everything about India and I reflect that through my art. My inspiration comes from the many forms of art in India, designs of rangoli, mandana, mehndi, the traditional paintings of Madhubani, Mithila, Warli, Pahari, Kalamkari works. Artists like Jamini Roy, Amrita Sher-Gil, many other Bengali artists including the famous photographer Raja Ram Mohan Roy are my models for creating art.

"I am drawn to the stories of miniature Rajasthani paintings of Radha and Krishna. I am very romantic and I love the romance and the mischievous behavior of Bal-Krishna. I made the two paintings: ‘Secret Lover’ and ‘Waiting for Her Lover’ based on the stories of Radha sneaking out to meet Krishna. That inspired me to paint the Goddess of love Rati".

Although Avni never learned the art of traditional Indian dances, she is  tremendously inspired by them. Her watercolor painting ‘Kathakali’ expresses her love towards the dance.Her other ornate works are inspired by Rangoli, mandana, and mehndi designs that are very popular forms of art in India.

The creative Process:

"First I read books on Indian art and scour my scrapbooks for images from the past. Once I get motivated from the materials, I sketch and sketch. When I feel satisfied with one of the sketches, I trace it onto archival paper in ink, and paint it. As I only have few hours to work during the night, I save the painting part for last and paint all the pieces together. The entire process takes about 3-4 days to finish each piece"

The guilt:


"When my son was born all I wanted was to spend time with him, feed him, care for him, protect him, watch him grow and teach him. But like many mothers I went back to work after three moths of maternity leave. I was lucky, I was able to bring my child to work the first year of his life, where I nursed him and cared for him while I worked full time. 


Completing a task at work while taking care of a newborn was a major accomplishment and I failed to realize that at the time. It can be challenging to have two very extreme careers and try to blend them together. When my son Pallan turned one, he was mobile; I had to enroll him in childcare. I felt I had failed as a mother; I was going to lose my child. I cried everyday for a month or two when I dropped him off at daycare. 


There were many times when I felt I was carrying a mountain on my shoulders, when all I had to do was share that burden with my husband. Communication is the key. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. My husband, an art teacher, was quick enough to point me in the right direction, the therapy I needed; art. That is what I set off to do. At first, when I was motivated to paint and draw, I would leave my husband and son alone for hours, almost abandoning them. I would lose myself in my basement studio, while my husband cooked, cleaned and cared for our child. I had no self-control, which of course led to many quarrels between him and I"

The Balance:


"Everything has its own importance and to balance it all is not only painstaking but also a very emotional journey by itself. There are lots of sacrifices, compromises, tears and hard work involved.


The only time I can work is late at night, as I work full time and do the household tasks and errands the other half of the day. Creating art is my outlet and my therapy; it is the counterbalance.


Working a full time job, continuing my art discipline and being a mother require many of the same skills. The most important foundations to being a mother, an artist and having a thriving career are imagination, creativity, patience, and understanding. 


I developed a routine. My husband who is also an artist got a few evenings during the week to work on his projects and I scheduled the alternate evenings to create my art. I was flexible towards any hurdles that came my way like the stomach flu that was like an epidemic in Colorado in 2010 or the economy that slowed down the sales in the art industry, or my husband’s meetings at work that ran late when it was my ‘my time’. 


The most important thing I learned was to prioritize; I even got my boss to prioritize her work so I could be more efficient and be able to accomplish important tasks.

We are women.. we are expected to multi-task, cook, clean, care and love, provide, etc. in the midst of all the chaos we forget who we are. We have to remind ourselves what is important to us and for that my mantra is -I am not just a woman I am a mother".

Kudos to Avni for being such a great artist and a perfect mom. Balancing work and motherhood is very challenging as we all know but her story can inspire many young women to are trying hard to do so. I for one am greatly inspired. You can view her fabulous artwork at her Etsy store always10 

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Thousands of joys of making a handcrafted jewelry

Meet Joy Franklin The artist behind “AThousandJoys” and learn how to make a beautiful Silver Necklace with Red Coral Inlay.

Art has always been her life. She can't live without creating with her hands. Her passion for art started with clay. She graduated with a B.F.A in sculpture in Michigan, and then furthered her studies in New York and Maine. She then decided to study in Italy where she fell in love with jewelry making. She has been living in Italy, the heart of the Renaissance, for the last 7 ½ years. She tries to capture the historical beauty and significance of nature in her intricate work and hopes that it reminds everybody to appreciate the "thousands of joys" that are hidden in nature....

Here are some interesting things Joy shared with me about herself and her highly creative jewelry making process.

 “I make everything myself, from the design to the actual metal. I recycle as much as I can, which means I melt down old silver (I have an old collection of sterling silver frames) in to an ingot, then hand roll it into sheet or pull it into wire. It is very time consuming and hard work (I've already had two back surgeries because of it!) but it's really important to me to keep the impact on the earth to a minimum, and keep my work as traditional as possible".

Here's an explanation on an inlay piece she made using traditional mosaic technique: 

"This very special necklace was meticulously created using the inlay technique or the old tradition of mosaic. 

The sterling silver design is placed on to a piece of sterling silver sheet.

It is then pierced and hand cut in an Indian style design.

It is then soldered to another base made from another piece of silver, which is cut around the outside of the design shape and filed. 

Lastly the bails from which it hangs are soldered into the design. 

For the inlay, a rich warm red Italian coral is broken into tiny pieces and patiently placed into the design fitting each piece in like a puzzle, and glued. 

It is then sanded down and polished. 

These steps may have to be repeated numerous times until all holes are filled in. This is a very slow and arduous process, but makes a very impressive piece of jewelry. 

Last and final step is to polish it to a beautiful shine”.

Many thanks to Joy Franklin for sharing her wonderful art with us.

View more of Joy’s beautiful creations at AThousandJoys